Narcissists are often characterized as egotistical, self-centered, and manipulative individuals. However, it is important to understand that not all narcissists are inherently evil. While their behavior can be harmful to others, it is often rooted in deep-seated insecurities and a need for validation.

Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a mental health condition that affects an estimated 1% of the population. People with NPD have an inflated sense of self-importance, a lack of empathy, and a constant need for admiration. They often believe that they are superior to others and expect special treatment and recognition.

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While narcissists may seem arrogant and entitled, it is important to understand that their behavior is often a defense mechanism to protect their fragile self-esteem. They may have experienced trauma or neglect in their early years, causing them to develop a deep-seated fear of rejection and a need for control.

However, this does not excuse the harmful behavior that narcissists may exhibit towards others. Narcissists often manipulate and exploit those around them to fulfill their own needs, without regard for the feelings or well-being of others. They may engage in gaslighting, emotional abuse, and other forms of manipulation to maintain their sense of superiority.

In extreme cases, narcissists may engage in criminal behavior or become violent towards others. However, it is important to note that these behaviors are not inherent to all narcissists and are often a result of underlying mental health issues or other external factors.

Overall, while narcissists may exhibit harmful behavior towards others, it is important to understand that their behavior is often rooted in deep-seated insecurities and a need for validation. While it is important to set boundaries and protect oneself from narcissistic abuse, it is also important to recognize that not all narcissists are inherently evil and may benefit from professional help and support.

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Sherry Gaba, LCSW and Transformation Coach

Author of Love Smacked: How to Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency to Find Everlasting Love

And Wake Up Recovery for Toxic Relationships, Codependency and Love Addiction

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